Being honest with your partner about satin

[silkysatinlover1]

My wife and I recently had a very matter-of-fact conversation about my love of satin. I think it's fair to say that most of us here have at one time or another had satin become a point of contention between us and our significant others.

Within my relationship satin has been close to actually splitting us up after she found a hard-drive a number of years ago with lots of satin porn on it. I agreed to delete all of it, and also got rid of a large portion of my satin nighties. Of course, as I'm sure we've all found when trying to abstain from any satin-related activities, it doesn't last for long. I found myself looking at satin porn at any opportunity when I was on my own. I bought new nighties on ebay and got them delivered to neighbours, telling them it was a surprise present for her, then hiding them away.

Eventually, she found out and wasn't impressed. I told at the time that my satin fetish was a part of me and wasn't going to go away. It took some time but she begrudgingly accepted this, and over the last few years it has slowly worked its way back into our bedroom. However, I felt that she never really enjoyed it when I suggested her wearing a satin nightie when we had sex.

At Christmas, I sat down with her and we had a long conversation about it. She admitted that whilst she did find the feeling of sliding satin over her skin enjoyable, she certainly didn't get the same sexual pleasure that I did. She told me that she resented satin, thinking that I was more attracted to it than I was to her, and was jealous, especially given the amount of porn I'd previously had and had watched.If I'm being honest I had never considered how my fetish was affecting her. I appologised to her for being selfish, but reiterated that it was something that has been a part of me since before puberty, and was very unlikely to go away. She agreed to work with my on it, and I agreed to try and help her understand how and why I enjoyed it.

We went on a huge shopping spree in the new year, and bought a huge amount of satin. Nighties, robes, blouses, tops, dresses. Where satin was concerned previously in our sex life, it has been limited to her wearing a satin nightie, and sometimes me, but now we've been experimenting a lot more.

One weekend when our son was staying at his friend's house, we spent an entire evening using all of the new satin items. I dressed her in satin, and spent hours sliding various nighties over her body, teasing her nipples, her thighs, stomach. I went down on her through a pair of purple PJ pants, and gave her the biggest orgasm she'd ever had.

Since then, our sex life is more active than ever before, and best of all, every time she wears and uses satin to pleasure us both.

My advice to you all with partners who may not "get" our fetish, be honest with them! Try to help them understand, and most of all try to understand it from their perspective as well! It's certainly worked for me!

[Silkking]

Thanks for taking the time to share all of this. Especially since you’ve moved into a more enjoyable phase of your relationship together! I’ve heard the same thing about “resenting satin” - that I’m more interested in the lingerie than I am in her. My wife stopped wearing anything silky years ago because of that. But now on special occasions when she really wants to please me she will wear a silky nightgown . Everyday though, She will wear very nice sexy bras. So I make sure I know her size and get her a new sexy satiny bra for birthdays, valentines, Christmas and sometimes just because. She has come to the point however where she dies not object to me keeping a nice collection of silky lingerie to masturbate with and whenever we have a sexual playtime. It usually goes something like this:

She was sitting up in the bed reading her Kindle. Almost every night she spends some time unwinding with a romance novel, sitting up in bed with a pillow behind her back. As she reads, she wears a robe, but nothing underneath.

I placed my right hand softly on her thigh. With my left, I started lightly stroking my half-hard cock using some of her silkiest satin-and-lace panties that I had slipped into bed with me.

She glanced over her reader and smiled with a slight sly grin, noticing my obvious enjoyment of the pleasures of her panties. She can see the motion of my hand slowly stroking my now-hard cock with one of her delicious delicates under the covers.

Sometimes, if I’m stroking with a slip or chemise, I will intentionally let a little satin and lace peek out from under the sheets as the silky bodice lays across my naked chest. It’s extremely erotic for me to know she’s watching me endulge myself so!

After a few minutes of pleasuring myself, I turn on my side and grabbed some peppermint lip balm from a tube on my nightstand, applying it on my first and middle fingertips. Turning back towards her, I pressed my panty-covered erection up against her leg as my lubricated fingers found their way between her legs.

She parted them invitingly, giving me access to her eager pussy. Grinding my cock slowly against the satin and her thigh, I began pleasuring her, alternating between a two fingered “V” slowly sliding up and down on either side of her swollen wet clit and her favorite masturbation technique: my middle finger deep inside her and my first finger delicately flicking across on top of her clit.

The peppermint made her very swollen, sensitive, and wet! For the next several minutes, I continued pleasuring her with my fingers while I enjoyed the similar pleasure of silky panties caressing my cock. She tried valiantly to stay focused on her reading, but I could tell by the change in her breathing and increased wetness that she was quickly losing the battle. She wouldn't be able to keep her rising arousal at bay much longer.

She closed her e-book and stood up, letting her robe slip slowly to the floor. Meanwhile, I re-applied the peppermint lip balm and opened my nightable. Hmmmm...What do I feel like cumming on tonight?

I selected a shimmering black satin Erika Taylor half slip with a generous lacy hem. Laying the slip over my erect penis, I relishing the smooth cool satin as it slid up my cock and how the lacy hem tantalized my testicles. I stroked myself a couple of times, leaving the half slip positioned with the waistband grazing my nipples and the lace hem across my upper thighs as my wife crawled back into bed and spread her legs. I slid over to her, nibbling her nipples and kissing her neck. She reached her hand down and began to stroke me with the black slip as I reinsert my fingers into her throbbing wet pussy, rubbing the peppermint lip balm over her protruding clit. I whispered a sexy memory in her ear of a night we spent in a hotel many years ago, vividly recounting the story in much detail - a story that ends with her wearing only a black half-slip, bent over the desk with me wildly banging her from behind.

As my story reaches its climax, so does she! She shudders with one, two, then three orgasms. Then after another few minutes of pleasuring her as she came down from her ecstacy, it was her turn to pleasure me.

She rolled over and slid her hand under the lacy slip, tracing delicate figure 8’s on my balls with her manicured nails. Then she started stroking my hard shaft with silky lingerie, indulging me with an expert slippery satin handjob. She started cheering me on, asking me how I liked fucking her panties earlier and urging me to shoot a hot sticky semen mess on the sexy slip.

I can take it no more! Ejaculating cum like an erupting volcano, I spurt my creamy wet load all over the silky ebony satin.

[Freddielinton]

Oh wonderful; more crappy fiction.

Thanks for ruining OP’s thread with that garbage. Go write a novel or something lol none of that ever happened.

[silkysatinlover1]

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[jellyjazz]

Never had an issue with anyone when I mentioned i liked satin... apart from one ex when drunk said to a girl that liked me, “he only likes to fuck me when i wear satin”. When we broke up the orher girl invited me back to hers one night and put on a long sleeved satin pussybow dress I gave her (same seller the mysatin black chinese dress), teased the fuck out of me... a week later we were at it like rabbits, funny how she took advantage of it.

Pity she was a bit of a nut... dumped her for a Polish girl who fully embraces it too.