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Yeah slowly is best. Once she realises it's just your "thing" and you're not some crazed weirdo, it's easier.satinstainer wrote:I don't have a clue what your relationship status is, how long ya'll been together, etc. Does she wear anything for you now ?? Have you mentioned that you'd like to see her wearing something a bit more often ?? If so, what was her response ?? In my personal experience, I've found it works better if you start off slow and gradually work it into your relationship. If you go too fast, or push her too hard, you're apt to turn her off to the idea completely.
If you're considering leaving her for another woman that may (or may not) be more receptive to your desires, it might be best to re-evaluate your overall relationship and/or what you look for in a woman.
If you two are secure in your relationship, but she's just not into silk & satin wear, you might want to consider other alternatives such as pleasuring yourself with either hers or other items.
You definitely want to tread lightly though if you're serious about her as this fetish could potentially damage your relationship if you're not careful.
I hope this advice helps and maybe other members will be able to suggest other ideas as well