Why do we love silk / satin???

[HyperSexyM83]

Hi,

I have fetish for silk / satin; it always aroused me at the highest; like looking at gals wearing shiny, glossy, wrincled outfits always attracted me towards them, it give you pleasure when watching, touching, playing, and going for the job with the gal wearing silk / satin even to mastrubate with it.

But I don't know why. Now because I think I am among those who have similar fetish so I think you people can reply. Please post why and how it works with you all.

[cornelius]

Everyone has something. We have a love of shiny soft silky satin. If you are like me, you have already spent too much time trying to analyse and justify and understand it.

Here is a secret.

A really, really important secret.

It doesn't matter why.

It looks, feels, is good. Satin is sensual and sexy and amazing. There is a reason why it features in so much porn and why it is so expensive and so desireable.

It's fantastic.

It's satin.

You love it. I love it. The world seems to love it. We just know HOW amazing it can really be.

[sealion]

I agree with the last post. satin is amazing. I like silk too, but satin is the best for me ,because I love how satin has a high shine more than silk, satin is also slippery and sensous and I love everything about it. So glad I can buy mens satinwear now as I didnt want to go down track of wearing female satin,but wouldve if I had to because I love this beautiful fabric so much.

[scintilla]

Hi Satin fans; I love satin because of the shimmer, shine and gloss of this glorious fabric, not to mention how smooth and silky that shimmer and shine is to the touch. I am especially attracted to acetate satin sheets because I can lay in them and that feel just drives me horny. I used to be attracted to other satin articles but found that satin sheets satisfied all my ugres to the fullest and so have just kept myself turned on by them. I have two pair of satin pajamas from Casual Male that I use occasionally for my desires but the sheets dominate my sexual urges.

[chrissyukcd]

It is both the look and feel of satin that I love. Nothing can compare to the feeling of freshly ironed ultra smooth satin as it glides over my skin, it is a massive turn on for me. But the ultimate turn-on is feeling it on someone else, gliding your hands over satin covered breasts, her smooth bra cups slipping on the satin. Or to be with a satin dressed TV/CD and feel their hard surprise under smooth satin panties, knowing that soon it will erupt for you as you feel her satin blouse slide against you, her body spasming and shuddering as her sissy clit explodes in your mouth.

[Lori234]

I have to say that I have spent time analyzing this question a lot in the past. I have now just accepted it. To have enjoyable sex I need to have something silky to play with. Some of the best sex I have had was with formal gowns.

[klisnitas]

Hi All

probaly the best post on this forum well here we go

the love of silk satin silky things makes me forget about whats happening in the world problems with work/people/things in life generally when i am playing with satin ,touching the wife up in satin or just doing her in satin all the tension seems to disappear no having to be macho man in the pub,no having to worry about how to earn money

bollocks lost the plot here

silk/satin for me is comfort(thats what i think i am trying to say)

klisnitas

[fulhambawbag]

Strange that this should come up as that is one of the very reasons I registered! I've been asking myself that question for years now. I think i've finally accepted that I have a fetish for it and that obviously(!) i'm not the only one. There is no harm in it and if it gives you a buzz then why not. I'm very lucky in that my wife understands how much of a turn on I find it all and she will dress up for me in one of the many silk dresses i've bought her. However, I do still feel a little unsettled after having some 'alone time' with one of her dresses if you catch my drift! I am not into CD'ing but very much enjoy slipping into one of her ballgowns as it feels awesome. Yeah, perhaps that's it on the nose - it's a comfort. All the stresses of the day dissappear.

[RedSatinLining]

Strange that this should come up as that is one of the very reasons I registered! I've been asking myself that question for years now. I think i've finally accepted that I have a fetish for it and that obviously(!) i'm not the only one. There is no harm in it and if it gives you a buzz then why not. I'm very lucky in that my wife understands how much of a turn on I find it all and she will dress up for me in one of the many silk dresses i've bought her. However, I do still feel a little unsettled after having some 'alone time' with one of her dresses if you catch my drift! I am not into CD'ing but very much enjoy slipping into one of her ballgowns as it feels awesome. Yeah, perhaps that's it on the nose - it's a comfort. All the stresses of the day dissappear.

Same. Its just the sexual side and the comfort. Baggy satin is so lightweight and comfortable to wear, yet heavy satin (not sure on different types) that you would find in a formal gown is just too sexual and soo irrisistable.

Worst case senario is being out and about with mates, either at a friends, party, pub or wherever and you do whatever you can to try just get a feel for the lining of someones jacket, or satin dress etc.... well, not the worst case senario, but a bad habit to fall into. I've learned to resist it, but just look and imagine.

Although, highly envious of all of you with a female partner who accepts your fetish. Especially if they understand the 'alone time with her dresses'... I'd be so reluctant to tell anyone I'd meet that I had such a thing!

[silktaffetafetish]

Hello all,

A silk/satin fetish, indeed all fetishes, are essentially mental illnesses. This is something that was caused usually in our childhood that deeply affected us, that involved some traumatic sexual event usually, but not always. That could take different forms, and we don't normally remember what that was because we were children when it happened. So this liking for silk isn't something we were born with, but a coping mechanism for something that happened in our childhood lives. You will probably never know what it was. The fetish itself isn't a good or bad thing, but it has serious consequences that we are need to be aware of. Like a child that is out of control, a fetish can go 'out of control' as well. At it's worse it will drive a person mad, becoming transvestites, and using and abusing women and men as objects in order to satisfy the desire for the fetish. The latter means that the person can't have a meaningful relationship with anyone without being sexually satisfied by means of the fetish. In short guys, a fetish can totally destroy a person.

However, as I said, it's not good or bad to have a fetish, so in my case I find that it amplifies sexual pleasure with the opposite sex, and works a treat in the bedroom with her!!! But without her wearing silk/satin most of the enjoyment is gone, and it becomes a chore, rather than a magical experience! My best sexual experiences have all happened around women who were wearing silk/satin. But when that woman didn't wear silk/satin I was affected by that in a bad way because it lessened the relationship in the sense that the woman thought I needed silk/satin in order to make love to her and therefore really what was happening was that I was making love to silk and not to her, so why did I need her???

Some people seek treatment by psychologists which can be a very emotional and long process to treat the fetish. This normally happens when the person is in a relationship and the wife/husband forces the other half to go and sort himself or herself out, or otherwise there is divorce. Apparently it can be treated when viewed as an addiction, which it is!! So for those of who that believe your fetish is damaging you, there is help available.

So be careful guys!! A fetish that is satisfied can be the greatest experience in the world, but it comes with a severe health warning!! The longer it's left, the more lethal it can be!

Take care,
A fellow man with a fetish!!

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Well aren't you a cheery chap?!

[maxilover]

So all women and men that wear satin , because they like the feel of it against there skin , have a mental illness !!!

[silktaffetafetish]

To like anything is normal, healthy and good, but to crave something to the point of addiction and necessity, to lust after it is the beginning and end of madness. For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

[billyboy]

Its for me like heaven on my skin. If I could I would like to wear it all my day... ^^

[tatra603]

My password stopped working a couple of weeks ago and I wasn't too fussed about correcting it, but having just read the above post by silktaffetafetish I felt that I had to in order to reply.

I strongly disagree with most of your assertions. First of all, this is plain insulting;

Like a child that is out of control, a fetish can go 'out of control' as well. At it's worse it will drive a person mad, becoming transvestites, and using and abusing women and men as objects in order to satisfy the desire for the fetish.

So, transvestites are simply people that have been driven mad,(and, it would seem, dangerous,) by their fetish? And the longer a fetish is left "the more lethal" it becomes?

What a load of rubbish. You might have some pretty strange crap going on in your head but speak for yourself. I've had the urge to cross dress, coupled with a satin fetish, for as long as I can remember and I have yet to reach the "use/abuse" stage and certainly haven't embarked on a serial killing spree.

MY opinion is the opposite of yours. I believe that it is more than likely something we ARE born with. If it is not something hard wired into our brains then it is probably something to do with the complex mix of hormones we all have. There may well be, in some cases, some kind of childhood influence, rather like a comfort blanket. I don't think that that would always lead to a "fetish" though. There was no silk or satin in my home when I was young and my mother didn't dress me as a girl.

Why are some people heterosexual while others homosexual? Are they born that way or is it down to events in their childhood? I'm pretty sure that most homosexuals will argue strongly that they were born that way.

I'm not saying that a fetish cannot, at times, be considered a bit of a curse. I sometimes wish that I was more "normal", that I didn't feel so comfortable in a skirt or that I didn't get massively turned on by the look/feel of silk satin. On the other hand, I wonder if the sexual highs I can reach because of the "fetish" can surpass the highs of the average person without one.

In the end, it doesn't really matter. I am who/what I am and no amount of "psychological help" or "electroshock" treatment is going to change that.