Hi all. First off, I've been on this forum for about a year now and have made a few posts. Its been great to be here.
Secondly, I should mention I'm one of the biggest satin lovers in the world. I have a very huge collection, and since they don't really make it for us guys, too bad lol, it's MOSTLY womens satin lingerie. I'm also into women's perfumes and makeup a little bit. So yeah, the crossdressing only started about 5 years ago. I know I'm not gay, thought about maybe trying it sometime, but don't think I could ever go through with it. I love beautiful women, especially adorned in Satin! The crossdressing does bring up some psychological concerns of myself. I don't want to be a woman, but seriously enjoy dressing up like it. Anybody else out there like me? lol I'm sure there's lots.
The satin addiction got waaaay worse after I split up with my wife. I've been separated, divorced and now single for these last 5 years now. Up until these last 6 months. I met somebody pretty awesome but she lives 2 hours away, so I've still been able to have my satin fun. She is in the process now of trying to move to my city. She knows I enjoy satin, but NOWHERE near what she thinks! lol She's only seen the satin sheets, and one pair of mens playboy satin pj pants. I've bought her a few satin garments and she loves them.
I did go all out with a girl a couple of years ago. Told her almost everything, and we had a couple of really fun nights together. But I just didnt feel like sharing my satin obsession with anybody yet. I have way too much fun on my own! lol Problem was, she was very annoying and scatterbrained, and I think I looked cuter than her dressed up. haha Not the prettiest girl, and very butchy. Which is funny cause she loves perfume. She did remark that she could get the chance to be more girly girl though, and she also said, after playing with me and the satin, "I can see how this could be very fun".
to be continued
Your advice please
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So here's the question? Has anybody had to give up a life of satin addictions to be with a woman?
I seriously don't think I can give it up. The crossdressing thing isn't gonna fly with her, I'm pretty sure of that. I have probably a couple thousand dollars worth of stuff I would have to throw out, stuff I don't want to ever part with. I'm getting so sick of hiding things too.
I'm really having a very hard time with this, and wondering if there was anybody else out there thats gone through something like this?
I seriously don't think I can give it up. The crossdressing thing isn't gonna fly with her, I'm pretty sure of that. I have probably a couple thousand dollars worth of stuff I would have to throw out, stuff I don't want to ever part with. I'm getting so sick of hiding things too.
I'm really having a very hard time with this, and wondering if there was anybody else out there thats gone through something like this?
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maiden,
you ask a very honest question and one most of us need to ask.
"So here's the question? Has anybody had to give up a life of satin addictions to be with a woman? " I'm sure the answer is Yes, but I have doubts about how well it works out long-term. The yearning for the satin fetish (in my opinion) will never go away.
I would classify myself as 80% satin fetishist and 20% crossdresser. I love everything about satin, charmeuse and taffeta. My heart beat races when I see the glimpse of a satin coat lining. When I am in a business or social gathering, I am right next to the woman in the satin blouse. Bridal Magazines are my porn. (I prefer the shiny satin styles of the 80s & 90s - matte satin is a stupid idea as far as I am concerned). A cotton blouse and wool skirt do nothing for me and I wouldn't trade my boys clothes for sensible womens clothing at all. But a shimmering evening gown with a full, petticoated skirts would be heaven. I have been obsessed with silks and satins since age 3 (as long as I can remember). I think about satin clothing probably 50x a day. When I was 12, I wanted to own a bridal salon --- that still seems like a great idea to me.
So what about relationships??? I have been married 24 years to an outstanding woman who was and is a 10/10. When we met, she had just finished her modeling career (for most models, after 25 you are done). She was also a former beauty queen. I am OK to look at, but it is safe to say that I over-achieved in my marriage. Neither am I rich nor a rock star, I was a nice guy, made her laugh and treated her well - and try to do so everyday. I also told her early on in our dating that I loved women's silky clothing. She said, so did she - and she could logically understand that aspects of a female's life are more fun than a male's life. The quality of my wife is she is open-minded, compassionate and shared my tactile sensuality. How did I win her (as she had many suitors)? I listened to her, really talked to her, made her feel like the finest person in the world (which to me she is) and was totally honest with her. She was tired of flashy ass-holes who only wanted her for her looks, so she opted for the nice guy who wanted to know who she was really. Here's a secret, the most beautiful women are really very insecure and wonder would anyone pay attention to them if they were plain.
Now after 27 years of being together. She still doesn't quite understand why I get so turned on by the look and feel of satin. She never will. She wears lots of satin for my benefit. She has taught me to sew and encourages me to let loose with my satin creations. But it will never be the same fixation for women that is it for us obsessed guys. You cannot expect her to ever really understand what this fabric does for guys like us. She knows I have two wardrobes and comments frequently upon the fact that my nightclothes are much more elaborate than hers. At this point, she would kick me out of bed if I came dressed in a t-shirt and sweats. We have raised four kids, they know I like satin pjs and wonder why we have all these large-sized silky clothes around when their Mom is a size 6-8? It hasn't really mattered as I try to keep it in perspective.
I hit the marriage jack-pot and try to remind myself of this everyday. I try and have succeeded mostly to be a great husband, father and provider. My family comes first, my wife deserves and gets romancing as much as I can give. No-one in my family will truly understand how much satin clothing rules my life, but it doesn't do me any good to bore others with it. This is my secret, which my wife shares and supports - so long as I perform well in the other aspects of our relationship, my hobby will not threaten our relationship which is built on a much sturdier foundation. She knows that I have a satin fetish and it will never go away, but I try not to make it a burden, or become a needy mess over it.
She would say that when evaluating a choices of vices, obsessions and distractions - satin clothing is pretty tame and since it brings us together, rather than apart, we have lucked out. We have observed over the years our friends split or drugs, alcohol, gambling, adultery, work-alcoholism and other factors. My wearing of panties and a slip is rather innocuous. I make sure it stays that way.
Best of luck,
Alana (her name for me) Raso (translate to Italian)
you ask a very honest question and one most of us need to ask.
"So here's the question? Has anybody had to give up a life of satin addictions to be with a woman? " I'm sure the answer is Yes, but I have doubts about how well it works out long-term. The yearning for the satin fetish (in my opinion) will never go away.
I would classify myself as 80% satin fetishist and 20% crossdresser. I love everything about satin, charmeuse and taffeta. My heart beat races when I see the glimpse of a satin coat lining. When I am in a business or social gathering, I am right next to the woman in the satin blouse. Bridal Magazines are my porn. (I prefer the shiny satin styles of the 80s & 90s - matte satin is a stupid idea as far as I am concerned). A cotton blouse and wool skirt do nothing for me and I wouldn't trade my boys clothes for sensible womens clothing at all. But a shimmering evening gown with a full, petticoated skirts would be heaven. I have been obsessed with silks and satins since age 3 (as long as I can remember). I think about satin clothing probably 50x a day. When I was 12, I wanted to own a bridal salon --- that still seems like a great idea to me.
So what about relationships??? I have been married 24 years to an outstanding woman who was and is a 10/10. When we met, she had just finished her modeling career (for most models, after 25 you are done). She was also a former beauty queen. I am OK to look at, but it is safe to say that I over-achieved in my marriage. Neither am I rich nor a rock star, I was a nice guy, made her laugh and treated her well - and try to do so everyday. I also told her early on in our dating that I loved women's silky clothing. She said, so did she - and she could logically understand that aspects of a female's life are more fun than a male's life. The quality of my wife is she is open-minded, compassionate and shared my tactile sensuality. How did I win her (as she had many suitors)? I listened to her, really talked to her, made her feel like the finest person in the world (which to me she is) and was totally honest with her. She was tired of flashy ass-holes who only wanted her for her looks, so she opted for the nice guy who wanted to know who she was really. Here's a secret, the most beautiful women are really very insecure and wonder would anyone pay attention to them if they were plain.
Now after 27 years of being together. She still doesn't quite understand why I get so turned on by the look and feel of satin. She never will. She wears lots of satin for my benefit. She has taught me to sew and encourages me to let loose with my satin creations. But it will never be the same fixation for women that is it for us obsessed guys. You cannot expect her to ever really understand what this fabric does for guys like us. She knows I have two wardrobes and comments frequently upon the fact that my nightclothes are much more elaborate than hers. At this point, she would kick me out of bed if I came dressed in a t-shirt and sweats. We have raised four kids, they know I like satin pjs and wonder why we have all these large-sized silky clothes around when their Mom is a size 6-8? It hasn't really mattered as I try to keep it in perspective.
I hit the marriage jack-pot and try to remind myself of this everyday. I try and have succeeded mostly to be a great husband, father and provider. My family comes first, my wife deserves and gets romancing as much as I can give. No-one in my family will truly understand how much satin clothing rules my life, but it doesn't do me any good to bore others with it. This is my secret, which my wife shares and supports - so long as I perform well in the other aspects of our relationship, my hobby will not threaten our relationship which is built on a much sturdier foundation. She knows that I have a satin fetish and it will never go away, but I try not to make it a burden, or become a needy mess over it.
She would say that when evaluating a choices of vices, obsessions and distractions - satin clothing is pretty tame and since it brings us together, rather than apart, we have lucked out. We have observed over the years our friends split or drugs, alcohol, gambling, adultery, work-alcoholism and other factors. My wearing of panties and a slip is rather innocuous. I make sure it stays that way.
Best of luck,
Alana (her name for me) Raso (translate to Italian)
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Hi Maiden. Just a quick point from me.
I cross dress but have no desire to be or even look like a woman. I enjoy the feel and comfort of skirts and occasionally dresses. I don't wear women's underwear, make up, wigs or women's shoes. Cross dressing to me is very often nothing more than a skirt. It is such a great feeling to get home after wearing trousers all day and get into a skirt. It is just so much more comfortable.
I don't get aroused by the simple act of cross dressing but am aroused by the feel of certain satin fabrics, especially real silk satin, (note to freidletown.) It may therefore sound strange when I say that I very rarely wear silk satin. I too have a huge collection of the stuff and am constantly adding to it. Skirts, dresses, nightwear, you name it. I just buy it and hang it up.
I couldn't give up my satin collection or fetish for a woman, (OK, maybe Maria Sharapova could talk me into it, if she tried really hard!) I had a long term relationship with a beautiful woman to whom I explained about the cross dressing very early on in the relationship. She also knew that I liked silk satin. She was fine with all of that, (especially when borrowing my female clothing!) but I never really felt as if I could tell her the true depth of my satin fetish. She may have been OK with that too but I'll never know as I screwed things up, (in a typically man way,) anyway.
The next serious partner I had after that was always a bit difficult as I never mentioned any of the Xdrerssing/satin stuff. We had our own places and I just never told her. It was never going to work long term.
These days I'd have to meet someone really special to even consider any sort of relationship. Even then she would probably start to think that I was hiding another woman as I could never bring her back here, as the place is stuffed full of women's clothing. Perhaps I should run an ad in the lonely hearts column; "male cross dresser with silk satin fetish seeks understanding Maria Sharapova look-a-like." Come to think of it, that might be my first job tomorrow! I'll let you know how it works out!
Tatra.
I cross dress but have no desire to be or even look like a woman. I enjoy the feel and comfort of skirts and occasionally dresses. I don't wear women's underwear, make up, wigs or women's shoes. Cross dressing to me is very often nothing more than a skirt. It is such a great feeling to get home after wearing trousers all day and get into a skirt. It is just so much more comfortable.
I don't get aroused by the simple act of cross dressing but am aroused by the feel of certain satin fabrics, especially real silk satin, (note to freidletown.) It may therefore sound strange when I say that I very rarely wear silk satin. I too have a huge collection of the stuff and am constantly adding to it. Skirts, dresses, nightwear, you name it. I just buy it and hang it up.
I couldn't give up my satin collection or fetish for a woman, (OK, maybe Maria Sharapova could talk me into it, if she tried really hard!) I had a long term relationship with a beautiful woman to whom I explained about the cross dressing very early on in the relationship. She also knew that I liked silk satin. She was fine with all of that, (especially when borrowing my female clothing!) but I never really felt as if I could tell her the true depth of my satin fetish. She may have been OK with that too but I'll never know as I screwed things up, (in a typically man way,) anyway.
The next serious partner I had after that was always a bit difficult as I never mentioned any of the Xdrerssing/satin stuff. We had our own places and I just never told her. It was never going to work long term.
These days I'd have to meet someone really special to even consider any sort of relationship. Even then she would probably start to think that I was hiding another woman as I could never bring her back here, as the place is stuffed full of women's clothing. Perhaps I should run an ad in the lonely hearts column; "male cross dresser with silk satin fetish seeks understanding Maria Sharapova look-a-like." Come to think of it, that might be my first job tomorrow! I'll let you know how it works out!
Tatra.
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Thank you all so much! It's nice to know I'm not the only person out there in the same situations.
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haha, I see I've been here for almost a couple years now
Yeah, I really enjoy the satin! lol
Yeah, I really enjoy the satin! lol
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SatinKnight
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Re: Your advice please
Hey all, Posted this in the wrong thread this first.. minus 5 IQ point..
I have had a satin fetish since an early age.. I enjoy the feelings and sensations of satin.. It originually started as a confort thing when i was very young but became part of my sex life from the start.. I get an extreme turn on from satin as it is, satin wetlook, satin messy play,( Even satin destruction with i don't don very often.) At present i am very lucky as my partner knows all my fetish and very accepting of them and edulgies them. In return i try to incorperate my satin fetish into her taistes..
I think may be early discolsure maybe the key, every one has their kink or fetish.. I can only speak from my relationship, but from a early stage i told her and my taistes.. Not on the first time of course and not all at once.. As i knew it was starting to get serious and slow slipped the satin in.. I would put on her satin dressing gown which i had baught her afterward sex which i suspect would not be uncommon, which inturn would lead to more sex because of the turn on for me.. Buying her satin Cloths also in turn gave me a reason to have satin in my cuboard.. As she became acustom to the satin, i started picking my moments to expand on it.. I would wait for her to get a shower afterward then get in it with her, wearing the dressing gown of couse slowly introducing the wetlook side of it that i like.. Wether it was the maddness of the first romantic period of the relationship of the fact the my current partner is no stranger to fetishes, she nether really had any problems with it.. These days i find that as long as i can fit her taists in with the satin it is all good, remember it's about her/him to..
Once i knew she was bi-sexual that opened up a window for me for the dresses.. and well thing went from their..
I suspect ultimately because it was introduced at the right time, as in at the point were we knew each other to be confortable but still at the point of the madness of first love were every thing seems, well mad.. As long as your not in her face with it and resist the tempation to get carried away. Sex is about feeling wether that be from the the every day sex game that we do for the fun or the romantic love making we do with our partners, the rough, the soft..
I have to admit to start a new relationship now would be harder with all the dresses in the cuboard, some being mine and some being my current partners.. I would probably have to get rid of the dresses, but i would keep the satin dressing gowns, jackets and sleeping pants... Things i could get away with, as no matter what my satin fetish will alway be part of my life, and as my current partner has observed it makes a big difference.. Sorry but at this point wether be it age (32) or experince i know who i am and for any women to want me to accept her and appreciate her, she most have to show the same respect in return..
I have noticed the debate over what makes a transvestite ( If i spelt that wrong sorry..lol ).. I can't help wondering what would it matter.. I have worn satin dresses for my partner before, ( but satin dresses are not as enjoyable as when she wears them ), I usually wear satin dressing gowns, satin jackets and satin sleeping pants usually clothing that is classed as unix sex, surely wether that would make me a transvestite or not is null/void surely the only thing that matter would be that i enjoy wearing them both in a sexual sense and every day sense, being that it turns me on and hightens the feeling during sex and is a confort to me during other times..
Satin White Knight..
I have had a satin fetish since an early age.. I enjoy the feelings and sensations of satin.. It originually started as a confort thing when i was very young but became part of my sex life from the start.. I get an extreme turn on from satin as it is, satin wetlook, satin messy play,( Even satin destruction with i don't don very often.) At present i am very lucky as my partner knows all my fetish and very accepting of them and edulgies them. In return i try to incorperate my satin fetish into her taistes..
I think may be early discolsure maybe the key, every one has their kink or fetish.. I can only speak from my relationship, but from a early stage i told her and my taistes.. Not on the first time of course and not all at once.. As i knew it was starting to get serious and slow slipped the satin in.. I would put on her satin dressing gown which i had baught her afterward sex which i suspect would not be uncommon, which inturn would lead to more sex because of the turn on for me.. Buying her satin Cloths also in turn gave me a reason to have satin in my cuboard.. As she became acustom to the satin, i started picking my moments to expand on it.. I would wait for her to get a shower afterward then get in it with her, wearing the dressing gown of couse slowly introducing the wetlook side of it that i like.. Wether it was the maddness of the first romantic period of the relationship of the fact the my current partner is no stranger to fetishes, she nether really had any problems with it.. These days i find that as long as i can fit her taists in with the satin it is all good, remember it's about her/him to..
Once i knew she was bi-sexual that opened up a window for me for the dresses.. and well thing went from their..
I suspect ultimately because it was introduced at the right time, as in at the point were we knew each other to be confortable but still at the point of the madness of first love were every thing seems, well mad.. As long as your not in her face with it and resist the tempation to get carried away. Sex is about feeling wether that be from the the every day sex game that we do for the fun or the romantic love making we do with our partners, the rough, the soft..
I have to admit to start a new relationship now would be harder with all the dresses in the cuboard, some being mine and some being my current partners.. I would probably have to get rid of the dresses, but i would keep the satin dressing gowns, jackets and sleeping pants... Things i could get away with, as no matter what my satin fetish will alway be part of my life, and as my current partner has observed it makes a big difference.. Sorry but at this point wether be it age (32) or experince i know who i am and for any women to want me to accept her and appreciate her, she most have to show the same respect in return..
I have noticed the debate over what makes a transvestite ( If i spelt that wrong sorry..lol ).. I can't help wondering what would it matter.. I have worn satin dresses for my partner before, ( but satin dresses are not as enjoyable as when she wears them ), I usually wear satin dressing gowns, satin jackets and satin sleeping pants usually clothing that is classed as unix sex, surely wether that would make me a transvestite or not is null/void surely the only thing that matter would be that i enjoy wearing them both in a sexual sense and every day sense, being that it turns me on and hightens the feeling during sex and is a confort to me during other times..
Satin White Knight..
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Well, well, well. I guess I won't need to break the news to my girlfriend. She is suggesting the cross dressing thing!
She knows about my love of satin, and is very open to trying new things. I kinda had a funny feeling she was gonna suggest it soon, so I just let it run it's course. The last time she was here, she put her panties on me. She lives 2 hrs away, so she gave me a pair to remind me of her, and vice versa, with a pair of my satin boxers. And just this weekend here, she put her satin nightie on me. I told her I've been ok with everything so for, cause she was quite concerned with not making me feel uncomfortable.
And then just last night, as we were texting our good nights to each other, she went into more detail about how cross dressing would be a huge turn on for her. I was actually super tired, so I just said I was ok with everything so far.
So now, pretty much in the process of letting the cat outta the bag lol
She knows about my love of satin, and is very open to trying new things. I kinda had a funny feeling she was gonna suggest it soon, so I just let it run it's course. The last time she was here, she put her panties on me. She lives 2 hrs away, so she gave me a pair to remind me of her, and vice versa, with a pair of my satin boxers. And just this weekend here, she put her satin nightie on me. I told her I've been ok with everything so for, cause she was quite concerned with not making me feel uncomfortable.
And then just last night, as we were texting our good nights to each other, she went into more detail about how cross dressing would be a huge turn on for her. I was actually super tired, so I just said I was ok with everything so far.
So now, pretty much in the process of letting the cat outta the bag lol
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I'm married and straight. I love wearing womans satin underwear. It's all sexual and my wife knows this though she's not so keen. At times she has let me wear them during sex but once in a blue moon. She has said if I ever want to wear her dress's please keep that one to your self and don't tell me, which is good as I don't want to wear dress.
I'm straight but I have had a arge to see a man in knickers for real, and for him to know I'm wearing some. I don't want sex. Reading on this site, I think it's just because we have a mutral interest. Satinplay! what goes on here?????
Back onto the question. I have toned down asking my wife all the time to wear her knickers and I think it's worked as I went away on business last week and she put some stuff in my case that was a suprise.
I'm straight but I have had a arge to see a man in knickers for real, and for him to know I'm wearing some. I don't want sex. Reading on this site, I think it's just because we have a mutral interest. Satinplay! what goes on here?????
Back onto the question. I have toned down asking my wife all the time to wear her knickers and I think it's worked as I went away on business last week and she put some stuff in my case that was a suprise.
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Satinmstrprincess
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Re: Your SATIN PRINCESS
Hi my sexy satin knight master,
I just want to say a massive thankyou for introducing me to your amazing an sexy SATIN!!! I know in the beginning I was like a duck out of water an I didn't quite understand what it was to enjoy the look,feel an sensation! But now I'm not quite sure if I get more turned on than you!! We've had so many different experience's but I must admit my favourite is when I put on any of my numerous satin trouser suits, as I immediately see your eyes light up an your cock spring to life!!! I really love it when you put me either in the shower or bath full dressed! Or when we go for a long walk in the rain I love how I see the satin getting wetter an the splashes that make marks on my satin blouse an suit!!
I hope that one day I will make all your fantasy 's an dreams come true from just holding each other an strocking satin to our wet an messy sessions to hopefully begin an pristine princess in a liquid satin dress that you use an hopefully slowly destroy(I KNOW NOT Everyone taste!!) very slowly!! I've love you an your satin xx
P.S I'll meet you upstairs in5mins lol xx
I just want to say a massive thankyou for introducing me to your amazing an sexy SATIN!!! I know in the beginning I was like a duck out of water an I didn't quite understand what it was to enjoy the look,feel an sensation! But now I'm not quite sure if I get more turned on than you!! We've had so many different experience's but I must admit my favourite is when I put on any of my numerous satin trouser suits, as I immediately see your eyes light up an your cock spring to life!!! I really love it when you put me either in the shower or bath full dressed! Or when we go for a long walk in the rain I love how I see the satin getting wetter an the splashes that make marks on my satin blouse an suit!!
I hope that one day I will make all your fantasy 's an dreams come true from just holding each other an strocking satin to our wet an messy sessions to hopefully begin an pristine princess in a liquid satin dress that you use an hopefully slowly destroy(I KNOW NOT Everyone taste!!) very slowly!! I've love you an your satin xx
P.S I'll meet you upstairs in5mins lol xx